Sunday, May 10, 2009

Courage



I will never understand how and why the Religious Right (who on one hand preaches love and forgiveness) feels they are justified in dictating and legislating morality and lifestyle. The tenets of Christianity are love, acceptance and forgiveness. Where are the love and acceptance here?

Love and commitment in relationships can take many forms. They are not limited by gender, race, religion, lifestyle or even a number. To deny people in loving, committed, consensual relationships the right to legalize their unions by marriage is shameful. Worse yet is to nullify already existing marriages, because they don't fit into one's idea of acceptability. People in these unacceptable relationships (whether LGBT or Poly) have already shown a greater level of commitment, courage, and problem solving than most mainstream couples. They epitomize the definition of what marriage should be. Perhaps Ken Starr and his followers should be more concerned with their own unions and the high rate of divorce among them. The prejudice and persecution of those in alternate lifestyles violates the freedoms that our country was founded on. It perpetuates falsehoods and stereotypes that breeds hatred and exclusion.

I know that this is an issue that has been going on for awhile. You may feel it is old news. Yet it continues. The battle is being played out in different states across the nation, for every step forward, there are two steps back. This is a battle that will be won, the only question is when. Whether this is being fought in your state or whether it directly effects your lifestyle, it effects us all. When the law can dictate who we love, live with, have sex with it is archaic and wrong. When people who love each other cannot care for each other, own property, provide benefits, make medical decisions, raise families it is immoral in every sense of the word. If you want to legislate morality, then let love win.

Like the song says...It breaks my heart. For more information on this issue check out the Courage Campaign.

3 comments:

Louise said...

Hi Alice, just dropping by to say hi, I hope everything is fine. It's a lovely sunny day here, have a good Sunday too!

Alice said...

Louise,

I'm sorry that I have been so silent lately. Everything is fine, I have just been busy, tired and quiet. We are in the heat of summer here, humid too, thunderstorms every night.

I indulged myself and bought the book you recommended a while back (Women Who Run With Wolves). Haven't started it yet, but it is next in my queue. I'm pretty psyched about it.

((Hugs))
Alice

Louise said...

So glad to know everything is fine, Alice. I do hope you enjoy the book, let me know! Love and hugs to you.